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2 November

EXAMINE YOUR OVERFLOW by Carol Shereni

When you pour water in a cup, the water level rises until it reaches the brim. At that point,...

30 August

You Are Loved, You Are Important and You Have Purpose! Guest Blog by Kim Gwanzura

I remember when I was teen, I would imagine what my life would be like when I became an...

23 August

Series : What can we, as helpers to our husbands, learn from the lives of wives in the Bible Part 2 b : Eve (Adam’s wife)

DON’T LET THE DEVIL DECEIVE YOU INTO DEFILING YOUR MARRIAGE BED ?Hebrews 13:4 NIV “Marriage should be honored by...

11 June

Wifehood and Motherhood

Recently I had a question about how to cope with house work and very young kids under the age...

1 May

You have a stain on your shirt: Red Flags! Guest blog by Kim Gwanzura

Imagine you’re at an event and every time you walk up to someone their face changes, (and not in...

23 April

SUNKEN OR SHIPWRECKED ON THE SHORES OF THE DIVORCE COURTS OR JESUS IN YOUR MARRIAGE BOAT?

Matthew 8:23-25 NIV [23] Then he got into the boat and his disciples followed him. [24] Suddenly a furious...

14 March

Series: Everyday lessons, for helper wives, from the Proverbs 31 woman Part 4 : Marriage does not limit you, it still allows you to become all God has called you to

Often certain world views, that fight for the empowerment of women, will give you the impression that marriage, God’s...

25 February

SINGLE AND PREPARING: PART II by guest, author and speaker Carol Shereni

Imagine…that the day you have waited for finally arrives. It’s the delightful day that you walk into your newly...

18 February

A prayer for our bodies in marriage because our spouse has authority over it.

Dear Heavenly Father, Thank you for the beautiful verses where you have given authority of our bodies to each...

26 January

WITHOUT STAIN OR WRINKLE

Recently having been at the coast, spending time just marveling at the magnificent beauty of the ocean, water has...

16 January

Part 3: She understands the power of her words to shape and create her world

She understands that her tongue can speak death into her marriage, into her world. She also understands that her...

8 January

Marriage goals for 2018

Please consider attending this DVD-based marriage course called “A Biblical Portrait of Marriage” by Dr Bruce Wilkinson as part...

7 January

Living Single – things to leave in 2017

Dating is awkward. Getting to know someone with the intention of hopefully dating them someday which will eventually result...

28 November

HOW I LEARNT TO LOVE MY WIFE AS CHRIST LOVED THE CHURCH

When I made the vows and promises to “love and cherish” my beautiful and adorable wife Lucy on 26...

17 November

PART 2: The Naked Truth About Your FUTURE EXPECTATIONS before The Real World Sets into Your Marriage

She dreams of a double-storey townhouse surrounded by flowers and lush green grass in a leafy suburb close to...

15 November

HOW I LEARNED TO SUBMIT TO MY HUSBAND by LUCY MBIZI

When l first learnt about submission, l dismissed it as l thought it wasn’t meant for me. l didn’t...

5 November

PART 1: The Naked Truth About Your Past Before It Shows Up on The Doorstep of Your Marriage

There is a knock at the door, a middle-aged woman unlocks and opens it. On the doorstep stands a...

29 October

SINGLE AND PREPARING by CAROL SHERENI (AUTHOR and SPEAKER)

“You are 31 years old and single?” is a question that I get very often. Yes, I am a...

27 October

Part 2: The power of the persuasive influence we have over our husbands – Eve (Adam’s wife)

Adam knew very well that he wasn’t supposed to eat from the “tree of the knowledge of good and...

27 October

Part 1: The salt pillar of longing for the sinful pleasures of this world – Lot’s wife

We all know the story of Sodom and Gomorrah found in Genesis 18 and 19. It was a city...

1 October

EVERY MARRIAGE HAS A MOUNTAIN TOP

Stretched ahead of her were kilometres upon kilometres of difficult terrain. An expedition of grueling steep hills, deep valleys,...

27 September

Singleness is NOT a disease! BY KIM RUDO

Our guest, Kim, blogs from her heart about being Christian and single… Singleness is NOT a disease! I...

15 September

THE DISAPPOINTING REALITY OF DISAPPOINTMENT IN MARRIAGE

You call your husband but he fails to answer his phone. It’s 3pm on a Friday afternoon, you’re now...

1 September

SUBMISSION, DISCIPLINE, OBEDIENCE, AND TANTRUMS IN THE GROCERY STORE

Trolley pushing isle by isle, picking grocery items from your list in the supermarket, your five year old daughter...

18 August

THE UNDERSTANDABLY DIFFICULT TRANSITION OF LEAVING AND CLEAVING

“You don’t understand! My mother will kill me! I cannot challenge her!” a gentleman exclaimed in resignation in a...

16 August

WAITING FOR THE TESTIMONIES OF GOSSIP

Testimonies are necessary, they can help us overcome our marriage struggles. Revelation 12:11 NIV They triumphed over him by...

11 August

Strung Along Until Your Heart Strings Are Out Of Tune And The Song Therein No Longer Makes Musical Sense Because Marriage Is Clearly Not On His Mind

As a woman, when you first begin dating a man you are attracted to and he encapsulates all you...

28 July

Dig Up The Sandy Foundation Of Your Marriage And Rebuild It On Solid Rock

A marriage build on the sandy foundation of this world’s wisdom is destined to crumble and crash when the...

19 July

Chip Away At The Walls Of Your Perceptions About In-laws, You May Be Pleasantly Surprised At What Is On The Other Side

Invisible walls are great! No-one can see them, so no-one will know they are there, we may reckon. And...

14 July

Unpack the suitcases, sit down, throw your pride out the window and send out an SOS!

You may have started off by packing the black bags when you were fairly newly married as perhaps you...

6 July

Husbands, your wives are your most important “connections”

How would you treat someone who was a powerful connection to your next big deal, your next step up...

3 July

Free 9 Weeks Marriage Course !!

The current course is going very well and we are over the half way mark.We will be hosting another...

28 June

The narrow road of sexual purity before marriage

God created sexual intimacy for marriage only. Abstaining before marriage is a narrow road indeed. The narrow road of...

23 June

Blink the stars out of your eyes and check the potential husband out properly

God never tells us exactly which man to marry, it’s our choice, He has given us that power. He...

21 June

The bitter consequences of unforgiveness

Sometimes forgiving is hard, especially when you have deep wounds and scars and those who have never had to...

19 June

Sometimes the perfect wedding can wait until after you are married

We dream of the perfect day, the perfect gown, the perfect venue, the perfect wedding, the perfect honeymoon and...

18 June

Free 9 Weeks Marriage Course !!

My husband and I both want to be relevant by investing personal time in our vision of “healing a...

16 June

Shipwrecked on the shores of the divorce courts or Jesus in your marriage “boat”?

Jesus is still in the business of calming storms. We just have to let Him into our marriage “boats”....

12 June

Perfection is out! Holiness is in!

God has not called us to be perfect as wives but to be holy and excellent. Perfection is carefully...

5 June

Mistreatment of a wife by her husband “bounces” his prayers right back from the “ceiling” of Heaven

Our Heavenly Father places enormous responsibility on our husbands to treat us well and with respect. In 1 Peter...

31 May

PART 2: Be a wife of noble character

Proverbs 31:10 NIV A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.The words...

29 May

Respect propels your husband to greatness

Wives must respect their husbands. This is not someone’s opinion, it is an instruction from the Word of God...

24 May

PART 1: We can never measure up to her perfection and we don’t need to

“Why can’t I ever measure up to the Proverbs 31 woman?” you may have cried out or wondered countless...

1 May

FAITHFULNESS- Boundaries

A wise husband or wife who loves God and wants to be obedient, loves their spouse and want to...

28 April

TRUST – Secrets

1 Corinthians 13v6-7 tells us that “love rejoices with the truth” and that it “always trusts”. As wives we...

26 April

How Do I Know A Man Is Suitable To Marry? A Man’s Perspective

Whilst it is difficult to even hear, let alone act on, anything negative about the man you have set...

18 April

Submission: What If My Husband Is Not A Believer? Should I Still Submit?

As a wife, if your husband is a non-believer, it is no reason to act in any rebellious way...

6 April

Faithfulness: The Marriage Bed

Our Heavenly Father expects us to be faithful both husband and wife. He has one very good reason, amongst...

4 April

Money In Marriage- One Simple Practical Way On How To Go About Being One In Your Finances

This is for everyday simple household and personal budget management: As outlined in my previous post on money, once...

28 March

Money In Covenant Marriage – Oneness, Agreement And The Issue Of Trust

Often you hear the term “his money” or ” my money” in the context of a marriage when really...

27 March

How Do I Love You? A Question Our Husbands Need Our Help With

God instructed our husbands to love us with a love so amazing that they should be prepared to die...

23 March

Who Do You Talk To About Your Marital Issues

Be encouraged that no matter the mistakes you may have made in your past or in your marriage, when...

21 March

To The Ladies Who Are Yet To Choose To Marry Because They Desire To Do So

Most women, if not all women want to appear beautiful, and there is nothing wrong with that. The pressure...

21 March

The Purpose of Marriage

In the beginning God purposed marriage for: 1. Multiplication through child-bearing; 2. Multiplication through conquering the earth and accomplishing...

21 March

Build Your Husband With Your Words, Don’t Break Him Down With Them

This is sometimes difficult, I know, especially when you are pregnant, during labour giving birth , or when those...

21 March

The Purpose Of Sex

God created sex as a wonderful, beautiful and unique way to enable you to have children together with your...

18 March

Model The Kind Of Marriage You Want Your Precious Children To Enjoy One Day

Just yesterday in fact, my husband said our older boy said to him “Dad, you are always wearing your...

18 March

Being stubborn about continuing to do the wrong things will take your marriage backward; being teachable so you can do the right things will move your marriage forward

Personal testimony Years ago I wasn’t always a helper wife, a submitted wife, a wife who respected her husband,...

18 March

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