Trust
A wise husband or wife who loves God and wants to be obedient, loves their spouse and want to earn and demonstrate trustworthiness will have no problem adhering to healthy boundaries in their marriage. Self control is important, it is a fruit of the Holy Spirit in us, but boundaries, to avoid the traps of adultery and sexual immorality, are essential too. It really has nothing to do with insecurity but everything to do with being holy and set apart for Christ and your spouse. 1 Peter 1:14-16 NIV [14] As obedient children, do not conform to the evil desires[...]
1 Corinthians 13v6-7 tells us that “love rejoices with the truth” and that it “always trusts”. As wives we should not deliberately and consistently withhold information from our husbands that they should know. Secrets are tiny seeds of deception you will need to water with lies to cover them up. They will germinate and grow into weeds of mistrust that slowly penetrate every aspect of your marriage and suffocate the real joy out of it. They will ultimately be unlocked and exposed at great cost to your marriage. Broken trust will have to be rebuilt which could prove extremely difficult.[...]
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