This is sometimes difficult, I know, especially when you are pregnant, during labour giving birth , or when those strange-worded hormones like, oestrogen, go haywire (usually at certain times of the month) but let us always be conscious of what the word of God says as that is our standard:
Proverbs 12:18 NIV
 The words of the reckless pierce like swords, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.
May our words always be soothing, healing, nurturing and loving as wise godly wives. We will get the best out of our husbands that way, anyway.
When we slip up, and most of us do, at some point, in the heat of the moment, don’t feel condemned, let’s ask for forgiveness and move forward.